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EK Aduri kahani December 5, 2013

Filed under: Uncategorized — rahul8nitb @ 2:49 am

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College ke wo hasi din gujar gaye, Jindagi ke ye jaane kaise safar par hum nikal gaye.

Hatho ki lakhiro ka ye kaisa dokha tha, humari hogi aise mulakaat humne bhi kabhi socha na tha.

Us anjani ladhki ki baato main jarur koi ksh-ma-kshh thi, Warna na mitnei dete hamari shakshiyat jo hume itni muk-kammal thi.

Uske kisso ne hume jina sikha diya, Talab ke is ruke paani ko bahna sikha diya.

ab to humari yaado par unhi ka pahra hai, na karo jine ki baat saki jab paani hi itna gahra hai,

Hume to bus ab dubna chaahtein hai, Meri yaado main unki baato ko dhudna chaahtein hai.

Kuda ne chaha to phir baat badegi, warna phir se tanha rateein uski yaado main kategi.

Ab to bus humari yahi dua hai usse uske hisse ka pyar mil jaaye.

jo na mil saka sahil hume, uski kashti ko mil jaaye……….

 

 

 

5 Regrets people made at their deathbed October 17, 2013

Filed under: Uncategorized — rahul8nitb @ 2:00 pm

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One of my friend posted a life touching article which will take you to your moment of death. The moment where each of your word start making a deep sense about your life which is going to end. The place where you first time realise  what kind of life you have lived and what life wanted to live ideally. First time you truly value happiness, passion, relationship which you suppressed over money, society, fake living standards. I request you to pl read this article and make a push towards the changes you want to see. This article is written by a Nurse who had been with many patients before they die.

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality.

I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. When you are on your deathbed, what  others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

 

Start A Positive Life October 16, 2013

Filed under: Uncategorized — rahul8nitb @ 12:06 pm

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Thinking positive is a habit which can only be built over a period of time. It is not one day job. I remember a story where a master martial artist asked Bruce to teach him everything Bruce knew about martial arts. Bruce held up two cups, both filled with liquid. “The first cup,” said Bruce, “represents all of your knowledge about martial arts. The second cup represents all of my knowledge about martial arts. If you want to fill your cup with my knowledge, you must first empty your cup of your knowledge.” This story hold as good in way to positive thinking if you want to fill your inner conscious to positivity you have to first workout on negative thoughts. Here are some tips to make your life more positive.

1. Changing Paradigm – First and foremost thing is change your paradigm. Look things positively, In this way you will train you brain to think always positive.

2. Keep Smiling – Bring yourself in front of a mirror and force yourself to smile. It really does help change your mood and relieve stress. I also felt lighter because it takes fewer muscles to smile than to frown. Slowly it will become your habit and Remember positive smile kills all internal negativism.

3. Meditate – Meditation is best way to relax yourself. It makes you feel unique. During meditation think all universe positivism coming into your body while inhaling and exhale negativism.

There are many other activities which will help you make your life more positive, relaxe and healthy like helping someone, eating healthy food, listening/singing music, daily exercise, deep sleep, Be Thankful whatever god has given to you.

I hope above tips will work for you and rejuvenate your spirit to begin your life with a new paradigm.

 

A boy at station.. March 4, 2010

Filed under: English,Hindi — rahul8nitb @ 5:59 am

by my friend ashok

Sitting at the station
Forced to wait,
I cursed the train for being so late
Delayed 10 hours already
I’ll be boarding tomorrow at this rate

If it weren’t enough
the weather wasnt making the job any easy
The temperatures kept going down
and it kept getting more breezy

As I looked around
I saw a boy,
The sight of which
brought me no joy
He was just wearing a shirt
In all this cold
Covered with dirt
and that too very old
That day being a holiday
brought him no good
For he still had to work(shoe polishing)
to get his food

I took a bedsheet and
walked upto him
I said
“Itni thand main mat raho
bimar pad jaaoge”
He said
“Bimar hi padunga na,
lekin marunga nahi,
Jab tak zinda hoon
aaram karunga nahi
Paise k liye kaam to karna hi padta hai
kabhi kabhi dard bhi sahna padta hai”
Frustrated I said
“ye chadar rakh lo
tumhare kaam aayega
Is kadkadati thand main isse
tumhe thoda to aaram aayega”
He replied
“Waise main khairat leta nahi
lekin aaj lene ka man hai
kyuki ye chadar ab chadar nahi
meri mari hui maa ka kafan hai”

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Things I hate about you.. February 28, 2010

Filed under: English — rahul8nitb @ 7:25 am

I hate the way you talk to me and hate the way you take my care,
I hate the way you  drive my emotion I hate it when you stare,
I hate your big dumb combat boosts and the way you read my minds,
I hate you so much it  makes me sick,it even makes me rhyme,
I hate it-I hate the way you are always right,I hate when u lie,
I hate when you make me laugh,even worse when you make me cry,
I hate when you are not around and the fact you didn’t call,
“but mostly, i hate the way i don’t hate you,not even close,
not even little bit,not even at all

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Note -this poetry is taken from movie(10 things I hate about you)

 

Maikhane ka mein rahi hu February 24, 2010

Filed under: Hindi — rahul8nitb @ 11:31 am

By my friend Rahul Garg

Meri yaadon mein teri batein ho,to kya hasi wo mulakatein ho
mere khawbo mein teri yaadein ho, to kya kasmin wo ratein ho
Juda to hun tujhse, par judai ka gam nahi
aasma ka tara hu tutne ka afsos nahi
tutne par bhi kisi ki fariyaad ban jata hu
ashq bankar kisi ki, aakho se chalak jaata hu

Paimane par na tol muje, maikhane ka mein rahi hu
aakhon se jo chalke, us madira ka mein pyasa hu
in bheed bhari raho mein,kitna mein tanha sa hu
ab is maikhane aake, muje mera yaar mila
abhi chand ki roshni mein kuch aur kirne baaki hai
hosh ki na baat karo saki ,abhi jaam baki hai

Teri yaadon ki is mahfil mein, kuch aur muje jine de
taro ki duniya mein, kuch aur pal muje rahne de
phir gujar gayi ye ratein, phir nikal pade ye jajbat
ab aadat si hai yu jine ki, tuje bhulkar yu pine ki
afsos nahi un raaton ka aur gujar chuki un baaton ka

Aaj phir behosh na ho paya
tuje yaad bhi pura na kar paaya
kal phir milta hu raho mein
baithege teeno maikhane mein

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Kyo Wo Samaj Nahi Pate Hai

Filed under: Hindi — rahul8nitb @ 7:19 am

Jab bhi mein bolta hu to, kyo  duniya  ruth jaati hai,
kyo ek  nagma, gazal banne se pahle tut jaati hai,
shayad diwanoo ki ye duniya, parwano ko nahi jaanti ,
isliye  tara tutne se pahle, kwaishein tut jaati hai…..

Pyar hume bhi hai, kyo wo samaj nahi pate hai
jalti shama bhi hai judai mein, kyo parwane bhul jaate hai
shayad sahil ki ye lahre, samundar ki gahrai ko nahi samaj pati hai
isliye dil tutne se pahle, aakh bhar aati hai…

………